Custom Cummerbund ONLY, match bow tie, wedding accessory, groom formal wear, menswear, tuxedo accessory, USA handmade, custom made

Custom Cummerbund ONLY, match bow tie, wedding accessory, groom formal wear, menswear, tuxedo accessory, USA handmade, custom made

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Custom Cummerbund ONLY, match bow tie, wedding accessory, groom formal wear, menswear, tuxedo accessory, USA handmade, custom made

PROCESSING TIME IS 7 BUSINESS DAYS FOR THESE CUSTOM ORDERS - THEY ARE MADE TO ORDER (i.e. I start production after you have placed your order) AND ARE NOT RETURNABLE

****PLEASE READ ALL THE INFORMATION/DETAILS BELOW****

Complete your ensemble and purchase a custom cummerbund in a print to match your bow tie purchase using this add-on listing
OR - buy a stand alone cummerbund CHOSEN FROM THE FABRICS SHOWN IN MY SHOP AS BOW TIES.

This listing is for a cummerbund ONLY - if you want it to match a bow tie you must buy the bow tie as well.

THIS LISTING CANNOT BE USED FOR MULTIPLE ORDERS E.G. FOR A WEDDING. PLEASE MESSAGE ME ABOUT WEDDING PARTY/MULTIPLE ORDERS

The cummerbunds in the listing photographs are FOR ILLUSTRATION PURPOSES ONLY. You can choose your fabric FROM THE FABRICS SHOWN AS BOW TIES IN MY SHOP.

Fabrics with low stock are flagged as such in the bow tie listing. If you see a low stock warning, I will NOT be able to make a matching cummerbund.

PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHICH FABRIC YOU WANT by including a screenshot/link to the bow tie shown in the fabric you want, in a message to me through the Etsy messages so I
(a) know what you want and
(b) so I can confirm that I have enough of the fabric you have chosen.

If you do not let me know which fabric you choose I will contact you and if I do not hear from you WITHIN 24 HOURS I will cancel your order and authorize a refund.

If I CANNOT make a matching cummerbund due to fabric availability I will contact you immediately via the Etsy messages.
If I do not hear from you within 24 hours of my message, I will cancel the order for the cummerbund and send you the bow tie only.

Cummerbunds are pleated, approximately 6" wide at their widest point and have adjustable elastic closures (either black or white depending on your fabric) per the final photographs in the listing. Lining fabric is cotton and chosen to co-ordinate with your chosen fabric (I often use white or black for their neutrality).

RUSH PROCESSING: If you need expedited processing for a single cummerbund set, I offer a 2 BUSINESS day processing time (NOT including shipping time) for a $35 fee. You can access this service by purchasing it using the attached link and adding it to your cart before checkout:
https://www.etsy.com/listing/267817623/rush-order-expedited-processing-for?ref=shop_home_active_2

I ship all cummerbunds via USPS Priority Mail (2-3 days' delivery estimate depending on zip code).

DISCLAIMER: I am not affiliated with Lilly Pulitzer ®, nor do I represent in any way that I am selling branded Lilly Pulitzer ® merchandise.

Please read my POLICIES and FAQs (in the More section of my shop)

Customers are automatically charged appropriate prevailing sales taxes.

Shipping from United States

Processing time

1 week

Estimated shipping times

  • Canada : 1 - 3 weeks
  • North America : 2 - 5 business days
  • Europe : 2 - 4 weeks
  • Australia, New Zealand and Oceania : 2 - 4 weeks
  • Asia Pacific : 2 - 5 weeks

I'll do my best to meet these shipping estimates, but can't guarantee them. Actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method you choose.

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 7 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 14 days of delivery

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Conditions of return

    Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

    Questions about your order?

    Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

    Privacy policy

    GDPR Compliant Privacy Policy

    INFORMATION I COLLECT

    To fulfill your order, you must provide certain information (which you authorized Etsy to provide to me), such as your name, email address, postal address, payment information, and the details of the product that you’re ordering. You may also choose to provide me with additional personal information (for a custom order for example), if you contact me directly.

    ACCOUNT INFORMATION

    I do NOT have access to your Etsy account information or your password. Payment information, including credit card numbers, are provided directly to payment processors by and through Etsy on a centralized basis and are NOT received or stored by me and/or my shop.

    WHY I NEED YOUR INFORMATION AND HOW I USE IT

    I collect, use, and share your information only as follows:

    - as needed to provide my services, such as when I use your information to fulfill your order, to settle disputes, or to provide customer support;
    - if necessary to comply with a legal obligation or court order or in connection with a legal claim, such as retaining information about your purchases if required by tax law; and
    - as necessary for the purpose of my legitimate interests, if those legitimate interests are not overridden by your rights or interests, such as
    1) providing and improving my services: I use your information to provide the services you requested and in my legitimate interest to improve my services to you. I do NOT keep email addresses and do not send any marketing emails
    2) Compliance with the Etsy Seller Policy and Terms of Use. I use your information as necessary to comply with my obligations under the Etsy Seller Policy and Terms of Use.

    INFORMATION SHARING AND DISCLOSURE

    Information about my customers is important to my business. I share your personal information for very limited reasons and in limited circumstances, as follows:
    - I share information with Etsy as necessary to provide you my services and comply with my obligations under both the Etsy Seller Policy and Etsy Terms of Use.
    - Service providers. I engage certain trusted third parties to perform functions and provide services to my shop, such as the USPS and overseas mail/delivery companies. I will share your personal information with these third parties, but only to the extent necessary to perform these services.
    - Compliance with laws. I may collect, use, retain, and share your information if I have a good faith belief that it is reasonably necessary to: (a) respond to legal process or to government requests; (b) enforce my agreements, terms and policies; (c) prevent, investigate, and address fraud and other illegal activity, security, or technical issues; or (d) protect the rights, property, and safety of my customers, or others.

    DATA RETENTION

    I retain your personal information only for as long as necessary to provide you with my services and as described in my Privacy Policy. However, I may also be required to retain this information to comply with my legal and regulatory obligations, to resolve disputes, and to enforce my agreements. I generally keep your data for the following time period: 4 years.

    YOUR RIGHTS

    If you reside in certain territories, including the EU, you have a number of rights in relation to your personal information. While some of these rights apply generally, certain rights apply only in certain limited cases. I describe these rights below:
    • Access. You may have the right to access and receive a copy of the personal information I hold about you by contacting me using the contact information below.
    • Change, restrict, delete. You may also have rights to change, restrict my use of, or delete your personal information. Absent exceptional circumstances (like where I am required to store data for legal reasons) I will generally delete your personal information upon request.
    • Object. You can object to my processing of some of your information based on my legitimate interests and I will delete your personal information unless I have compelling and legitimate grounds to continue using that information or if it is needed for legal reasons.
    • Complain. If you reside in the EU and wish to raise a concern about my use of your information (and without prejudice to any other rights you may have), you have the right to do so with your local data protection authority.

    HOW TO CONTACT ME

    For purposes of EU data protection law, I, Caroline Driggs, am the data controller of your personal information. If you have any questions or concerns, you may contact me at caro.driggs@gmail.com. Alternatively, you may mail me at:
    Caroline Driggs, 4901 Old Course Dr. Charlotte NC 28277 USA

    Frequently Asked Questions

    CUSTOM ORDERS & COMMUNICATION

    ALL CUSTOM ORDERS (including ALL cummerbunds and suspenders) ARE FINAL SALE ONLY as stated in the relevant item listings.

    WEDDING PARTY ORDERS: I am delighted to make custom orders for wedding parties. I am happy to provide up to 5 complimentary swatches and encourage you to request same before placing a custom order.

    COMMUNICATIONS: In order for both parties to have a complete and accurate record of what we discuss, all communication is conducted in writing through the Etsy messages. and I do not use the phone. I always respond promptly and fully to all inquiries in writing.

    PRODUCT INFORMATION

    ALL items are handmade by me.

    BOW TIES measure 2.25" - 2.5" vertically at their widest point, 4.5” from side to side when tied and fit collar sizes 14.5" - 19.5".
    Non standard sizes are available on a custom basis - send me a message.

    POCKET SQUARES are UNLINED (i.e. with a right side and a wrong side) and hemmed. They measure approx. 11" x 11".

    SUSPENDERS are 1.25" wide, have elastic inserts at the back to ensure a good fit and CLIPS attach the suspenders to the wearer's pants.

    CUMMERBUNDS are pleated, approx. 6" wide at their widest point and have adjustable elastic at the back (either black or white).

    Boys' bow ties are pre-made faux bows on adjustable straps intended for children up to age 10.

    BRANDED MERCHANDISE DISCLAIMER

    I am not affiliated with Lilly Pulitzer ®, nor do I represent in any way that I am selling branded Lilly Pulitzer ® merchandise.

    DISCOUNTS and WHOLESALE PRICING

    I price all the items I make very competitively and offer exceptional quality and value. I do not give volume discounts as I make every order by hand and don’t save anything when filling an order for more than one item. Thank you for your understanding on this point.

    I do not offer wholesale pricing.

    SHIPPING & RETURNS

    SHIPPING: I am NOT RESPONSIBLE for your package once it is marked as "DELIVERED" by the USPS as I have zero control over what happens to your package after it is placed in your mailbox. Tracking info is provided by Etsy so you can track your order's progress. If an item is lost by the USPS please contact me.

    You are responsible for the accuracy of your shipping address - please check your mailing details at the time you place your order.

    INSURANCE: If you wish to purchase shipping insurance please contact me BEFORE completing your purchase and I will be happy to arrange it at a nominal extra cost.

    RETURNS: please check your packing slip for details on how to return a NON-CUSTOM bow tie.

    CUMMERBUNDS AND RUSH PROCESSING

    Cummerbunds have a standard 7 business day processing time. I can, however, provide a 2 business day expedited service for a $35 rush fee using the link to the Rush Processing item available in the Cummerbunds section of my shop. Per the notice above under CUSTOM ORDERS, all cummerbunds and cummerbund sets are custom orders and are therefore non-returnable.

    PACKAGING

    All my products are attractively packaged for you and bow ties are in clear bags tied with a grosgrain ribbon. Gift cards are available upon request and if you want the gift to be a surprise I am happy to wrap your order in tissue paper before tying it with the grosgrain ribbon.

    PRODUCT PHOTOGRAPHY

    Product images are for illustration purposes only so the item you actually buy in any given fabric design may differ in terms of color and/or motif placement from the product photo due to the scale and placement of said elements on the fabric I use.
    Due to differences in computer monitors, colors of products may appear different from those shown in my shop.
    The images in my shop are copyright protected and unauthorized use of those images is strictly prohibited.

    INTERNATIONAL ORDERS

    I no longer ship directly to any international countries - or Canada - due to unacceptably high shipping costs, onerous Customs duties, tracking and delivery difficulties in destination countries, and burdensome EU requirements and red tape.

    If you live in Canada or overseas and wish to place an order, I am happy to ship to a US address so that you can arrange for trans-shipment (either through a trans-shipment company or through the good offices of family/friends).

    Wonderful product, and experience. Highly recommend


    Great customer service and the products are beautiful.


    Purchased as a set and they were a huge hit! Love love, love them


    Great quality, craftsmanship and I can’t wait to see it on my husband at a family wedding. The bow tie and cummerbund match my dress perfectly!


    Just great!!! It is really lovely !